You have better things to do than online BBW dating. I know because thousands of you tell me how much time you waste on hookup apps like Match, POF, eHarmony, Tinder, Bumble. Whether you're wasting time blindly browsing, reading profiles for people who aren't right for you, rummaging through emails from mismatched people, or sitting through dates where you know you can't go anywhere, there's a price to pay. You only have so much emotional gas in your tank that eventually you feel exhausted and ready to give up. The bad news is, it means you're doing it wrong. The good news, however, is that it doesn't take much to go from wrong to right.
Online curvy dating should only take 5-20 minutes. If you're spending more time than that, you're wasting energy. When that happens, the only thing that benefits is your dating apps or site. They want you to spend as much time on their app and interact with as many people as possible. In this way, your behavior will cause other singles to buy subscriptions, or small promotions like "rush hour" or "awesome." Here are some tips you can use to make sure you don't fall into this time trap.
1.Don't be a puppy
Joining a chubby dating app is like going for a walk on Christmas morning as a child or a puppy. Every second is full of possibilities and new surprises. The problem is that we can be so distracted by all our choices that we don't take the time to focus on those who are looking for us and those we are looking for.
2.Use the right platform
Most plus size dating apps and sites have specialized search tools and filters, but most are designed to make more money from dating apps than to help you find a fat dating relationship. Forget the bells and whistles. Stick to the most detailed search criteria options, and make sure to rank search results based on who has recently visited the app.
3.Don't be afraid to say no to yourself
It's easy to start sending messages to people we don't want a response to. After all, it's just an email, right? The problem is that every time we let ourselves out without reacting, we're less likely to let ourselves out again. Before you text someone, make sure there's nothing wrong with you and that you do have the qualities she wants
4.Be a sniper, not a machine gunner
All this boils down to a dating technique that may take longer but takes less time. You should be able to enter a BBW tinder or site, run your search, see who's there, and decide if there's any new messages in 5-10 minutes. From there, it's just a matter of sending a message. If you find yourself sending a lot of messages, chances are you're just looking for what you want, not what your potential BBW hookup partner wants.
All this boils down to a dating technique that may take longer but takes less time. You should be able to enter a BBW tinder or site, run your search, see who's there, and decide if there's any new messages in 5-10 minutes. From there, it's just a matter of sending a message. If you find yourself sending a lot of messages, chances are you're just looking for what you want, not what your potential BBW hookup partner wants.